Love is such a complicated emotion, most people probably have never been in love they just think they have. People sometimes fall in love with the wrong person some people fail to see when another person is in love with them and sometimes people fall in love with someone who isn't willing to give them a chance. But there are different kinds of love, there is the love you give to your family, the love you give your best friend, the love you give to God, the love you give to your boyfriend/girlfriend and the love you will or do give to your husband/wife.
Love is something that can't be controlled you don't choose to love someone you just love them, it's not something you can change or turn on and off. I believe that it is impossible to fall out of love with someone completely the amount of love you give a person can and probably will change at times but if you truly love someone you will always love them no matter what. It is also possible to love someone and not be in love with them, this happens when you realize you cant live with a person your whole life, this is the most painful and upsetting situation to be in because you don't want to leave but at the same time you know you have to. Its also hard because you know you will never be able to leave that person behind you, you will have some emotional connection with them for the rest of your life you just won't have the physical connection, which brings up another point. There is no such thing as physical love this is called lust, its love without emotion. This is often times confused with love and usually makes for a short lived relationship. next time someone tells you they love you think about which kind of love they are trying to give you and weather you love them back in the same way or a different way or at all. Never say I love you if you are not sure you mean it, and always make sure what you are feeling really is love not lust.
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